We all have a past. Choices we made as young parents seem so easy. Choices we make in life is not just for us, but they affect our family members also. Our children grow up, feeling abandon. Because we as mothers choose to walk away from situations, and our children grow up without their father, but he also made that choice not to be in their lives. We as parents need to let our sons and daughter know not to allow this to happen to their child. Choices we made as young adults will resurrect itself, even forty-nine years later. Someone else could be raising your child. Because we all do have a past. Let's tell the truth to our children so they will not make the same mistakes. This will become their story as it is ours. Our children, and children all over the world is living this. Conversation need to take place. Because the truth always comes out. They desire to know that absentee father. We all have a past and this will also be their past, their story, if we don't have the conversation, to break the generational curse, this trend of path will continue in families. We must inform our children not to let their children grow up with out their father. They have a right to have a relationship with him if they so desired.