When you are in a family with many successful marriages all around you, how do you know if you are the only one living with a porn addict? Do you simply ask, or do you remember your vows till death do us part and keep quiet? His secret became ours and before I knew it, we were more than two decades into a marriage under seize by a porn addiction. Like a fly trapped in a spider's web, he was totally under the control of pornography and held captive by this destructive force unable to free himself regardless of the emotional or impact to a family. Pornography is highly addictive and very destructive as any illicit drug with the addict finding it hard to put it down even as it impacts his or mind and body. As Delilah took down Samson through the spirit of lust, pornography will take over and master the addict keeping him or her stuck like prey on a spider's web. But there is hope and there are resources to help you gain freedom.