THIS IS NOT A TEST.Strategic use of the engagement period is critical to the success of your marriage.In the form of letters to a dear friend, Neysa Taylor shares her heart about the triumphs and trials of marriage-all the things she'd wished she'd known prior to saying "I DO." Her dynamic and refreshingly transparent storytelling implores the engaged person to use the time of engagement to spiritually, mentally, and physically prepare for marriage.With over half of all marriages ending in divorce, Taylor's candor illustrates her commitment to ensuring that you are fully prepared for your union. From embracing extended family, having an active sex life, planning for children and even overcoming adultery, she shares both the sweetness and the land mines that come with merging two lives together.