His Side/Her Side is our personal account of Domestic/Intimate Partner Violence. We want the world to know the inner thoughts of a victim and an abuser. Victims are not stupid and abusers are worthy of a second chance at life if they are willing to do the work We go deep inside our personal relationship to show you how domestic violence starts out small and progresses into a major problem. We are not promoting reconciliation, because we understand some situations are very dangerous. However, we want both victim and abuser to get the help they need and hopefully get to a place of forgiveness.