Leading requires communication. And the best way to get people to want to listen you is by you listening to them first. But what is there to listen to if you cant get anyone to talk to you? What if a person is shy and doesn't like to share? What if someone is just nervous and guarded? You need to know how to start a conversation. 25 Conversation Starters is your handbook to talking-to people - and getting them to talk to you.